Birthday wishes

These days, the bar is very low. You can quickly congratulate someone on their birthday in one of the countless chat groups you belong to, write a short sentence without any real meaning, and you’re done. You’ve “done your part,” but no one really pays close attention. It’s just more digital noise, digital pollution, and wasted time.

I still remember calling someone on a landline for their birthday—full of intention and presence.

Even when someone writes a deep, personal note, you need to be in a particular state of awareness to truly appreciate it.

I don’t share these empty wishes, and I don’t want to receive them either. That probably makes me seem like a weirdo.

Many years ago, I chose a few people with whom I exchange personal wishes. I chose them because something in their energy resonated with me. They are the select few who lift my energy rather than drag me down or waste my time with shallow, meaningless one-sentence messages.

And this has continued for years—beautiful and almost effortless.

Goodbye to Fact-Based Reality Analysis – Part One

I don’t know if it ever existed and is now gone. It’s possible that the very reasons I attribute to its disappearance are actually just the messenger exposing the fact that it never existed at all.

​We humans change with age. Some become more certain of things, while others grow more aware of life’s complexities. Maybe all the following analysis is just me getting older. Maybe there’s more to it.

Paradoxically, the Information Age has made us blind to information. We have too much of it, and we are presented with information curated by algorithms—black boxes developed to maximize engagement and, perhaps, to create global chaos, although this last point is hard to prove.

Reality communicates with history, and human weaknesses do not change. The logical conclusion is to study the past. But if we know reality is portrayed by people and machines with agendas, who can guarantee our understanding of the past is accurate?

From a historical perspective, the most relevant human weaknesses are fear, greed, and ego. These are constant. The new addition that technology amplifies is the human tendency for addiction. In the past, one could abuse an addiction with alcohol, cards, food, etc. The impact of these was confined to one’s immediate environment. These days, with mobile devices, the internet, and social networks, human addiction is impacting a much wider environment. The toxic effects are spreading across nations and beyond.

Economically, inequality is deepening, or at least it is much more visible and discussed. It’s the starting point of any populist movement. Today, a non-populist leader can only compete by adopting a populist toolkit. All of this drives more negativity, misinformation, and divisiveness.

​World powers are engaged in a new cold war, trade war, and social media campaigns to weaken other countries, encourage immigration, and promote drug consumption, all while taking advantage of modern democracies’ weaknesses.

Blockchain and AI are amazing innovations, but they are also being adopted by countries and money-laundering organizations.

​Going back to history, go and find a century in which Western countries did not engage in wars. There are none, at least not in the last few hundred years. Why should that change, especially in light of the above?

Go listen to Dominic Sandbrook and get a wakeup call.

​Individuals and countries tend to react slowly to the fast changes that technology brings us. Many aren’t even grasping it.

​Do you agree? If so, what can be done? More next week.

Minor change, major experience

Not a big fan of WFH. Never tried a real remote work from a complete non work related area. I see many benefits to office life. If you are still here 🙂 I’d like to share a an experience.

I found a place, with surprising windy conditions, as much as a summer day, in a hot, too hot place can be. With shades. With a chair and a desk. Outside. And amazingly, almost no one around. Hearing cars for a far road, listening to birds, a train passes not so far from here. We are talking mid city yes? but with an unusual set that causes no one to be here. And those that pass by are focused on their destination I guess.

And what’s super amazing, I sat there, opened my laptop, and just worked. Enjoying the wind, not losing focus to random web scrolling. And without the constant unease of people around me.

And the progress I make, and the set around me made me feel good. And the dry wind brought on a smile. Drinking cold water, feeling it flowing down inside and fueling my body.

Maybe I can make a habit out of it? starting a day few times a month like that? what if this an everyday thing? what if tomorrow I go back to office and forget this feeling? I’ll just be here, now, smile now into the dry wind.

Anger

A reasonable person does not want or like to be angry. There’s energy cost for being angry. Your mind is constantly working and gets tired. And your body and muscles are stiff. You finish the days exhausted. It’s hard to control yourself when angry, it’s difficult to concentrate. It’s hard to accept your limited control on things around you.

It’s easy to be self focused, it’s easy to feel self pity. It’s easy to sit on a chair and move your leg in a fast and pointless way. Your body wants and need to be in motion. But a good chance you cannot move.

This is fuel. Remember, this is fuel. Take it, breath it, rest more but use it.

What is it that you wanted to do and left behind, what is that is important to you but you were lost in your comfort zone.

Now is the time. I mean literally this second. Go and do this one little step.

Or just breath in. In the here and in the now.