Being Aggressive means*:

1. Taking action
2. Forceful and sometimes overly assertive pursuit of one aims
3. It does not mean to be loud

You need to make things happen.

Start with your thoughts. Actions will come.

Getting no equals a little roadblock.

Why it’s all written here you might ask. There are times to look inside and accept yourself with compassion. It’s probably the first and most important layer. But it’s not enough. The result of this step is you feel a little better with yourself, understand more, less angry.

The second step is tell yourself what could be a purpose that you’d like to chase. Without it you stop living and become a life watcher. This is the fuel to make you active.

Then you are ready to touch the areas you want to strengthen. These areas that you never were open to accept criticism. Because you knew it was correct and it made you apologetic or angry.

When you want to touch these areas, you might want to change the content you consume to a different kind. Now it’s time to listen to people with the proper experience and perspective.

What it means? it means that introverts should listen to JOCKO WILLINK . And not feel bad about it.

*From here